Even though some events have become more casual, others have not, choosing what to wear to special occasions like weddings and job interviews can be a bit of a challenge. Weddings, baptisms, networking events, funerals, job interviews, barbecues, holiday parties, and baby and bridal showers are just a few examples of the kinds of events that need to be managed. What you wear also depends on other factors: the venue, the formality of the invite, the weather, and often what everyone else plans to wear. With this breakdown of every event’s dress code from Real Simple fashion editors and experts, you can put an end to the question of what to wear. Formal events may be a little more prescriptive about their dress code. (For instance, you might see the phrase “black tie requested” on a formal wedding invitation.) But you’ll still need to find the perfect, flattering ensemble for you that suits that celebration.
Baptism, Bar Mitzvah, or Other Religious Ceremony
What to Wear: Rely on a pretty daytime dress, maybe in a pastel or floral, or a suit paired with feminine underpinnings and accents. Bring a light sweater, blazer, or neat jacket to cover up sleeveless styles. Wear a cocktail dress or dressy pants, a jacket, or a wrap to cover up in the temple or church if there is a reception immediately following the ceremony and there is no time to change. What to Avoid: Skip anything low cut, short, or clingy.
Wedding with black tie or charity gala What to Wear: Think elaborate details, shimmering fabrics, and tuxedos. Your best bet is a tea-length or floor-length gown, even though etiquette guidelines are becoming more relaxed regarding dress length. A column or A-line dress is most sophisticated, but you could wear a well-tailored, chic, and formal suit. Now’s the time to elevate your look with elegant jewelry, fabulous shoes, and a great hairstyle.
What to Avoid: Keep the hem length longer, unless the invite says “black tie optional.” Then you can feel free to loosen up slightly with a formal knee-length cocktail dress.
